Choose your words well for they determine the lens with which you see the world around you.
It's really as simple as that. Although circumstances aren't entirely ours to control, by choosing how we describe the events that we encounter and the locations and people that we are around, there can be some sway in this process. Be cautious so as not to shade something incorrectly based on a skewed personal filter. Events are neutral, the world is chaotic and organized at the same time, and we have the ability to augment our experience through whatever free agency we have. Respond, don't react, choose instead of being forced. Through a progressive chain of choices , we can guide ourselves to most any destination.
Also, remember, honest with no apology, be yourself entirely, show us your realm.